Love and hate are like a coin with two faces, they are very close to each other but it will never be together and if they become one will damaging the coin itself. This may happen to any couple no matter their sexual interest but when bad thing happens people are normally blames love, the happy time is over and the worst come to the worst as this involving someone you use to love then hate can be extremely deep. The possible cause may vary from sex, possession / money, wealth, or communication error.
As recently coloring news on every single Indonesian television channel there is one nice looking guy reveal that he is a serial killer and has been killed more then ten persons, many of his victims are buried in his own home yard, just another fact how love can transform into a wild and dangerous hate.
In many other cases also shows how cruelty has potency to happen in any married couple and triggering an awful fight.
My understanding, almost in every case there is always a point showing where the lack of communication is the ‘prime cause’ of any rising problem and this not only happen in a couple relationship as family but also become a trigger in many huge problem in this world, yes, communication.
People are capable to speak but it doesn’t mean that they can properly communicate and speak up what they intend to.
Maintain a family good situation are also not an easy task when your partner not capable to communicate in a good way or willing to communicate because basically we are an adult carry our own egos, character and personality before actually we meet the one we are living with by now. Communication and understanding is something that we have to keep on developing each day. For me is not possible to find a person with 100% same interest and character and if so I think that will pretty much boring! Imagine if you are a quiet person and not talk active and having a partner who has the same type of character then (maybe) your life will be boring!
If the communication flows nicely and done in a proper adult way then I am sure all of each problem rise in your family will be gradually minimized and you will have happier life.
Learn to understand your partner and communicate with in a good way, do not give an order because you’re not the boss, but you are a partner!By the way do you know what hot after couple’s fight is? It’s a Hot sex … yeah….. at least it works well for me :-)
As recently coloring news on every single Indonesian television channel there is one nice looking guy reveal that he is a serial killer and has been killed more then ten persons, many of his victims are buried in his own home yard, just another fact how love can transform into a wild and dangerous hate.
In many other cases also shows how cruelty has potency to happen in any married couple and triggering an awful fight.
My understanding, almost in every case there is always a point showing where the lack of communication is the ‘prime cause’ of any rising problem and this not only happen in a couple relationship as family but also become a trigger in many huge problem in this world, yes, communication.
People are capable to speak but it doesn’t mean that they can properly communicate and speak up what they intend to.
Maintain a family good situation are also not an easy task when your partner not capable to communicate in a good way or willing to communicate because basically we are an adult carry our own egos, character and personality before actually we meet the one we are living with by now. Communication and understanding is something that we have to keep on developing each day. For me is not possible to find a person with 100% same interest and character and if so I think that will pretty much boring! Imagine if you are a quiet person and not talk active and having a partner who has the same type of character then (maybe) your life will be boring!
If the communication flows nicely and done in a proper adult way then I am sure all of each problem rise in your family will be gradually minimized and you will have happier life.
Learn to understand your partner and communicate with in a good way, do not give an order because you’re not the boss, but you are a partner!By the way do you know what hot after couple’s fight is? It’s a Hot sex … yeah….. at least it works well for me :-)
